A Chronicle of my Changing Times.

Thankfulness

Holidays are the toughest part of being abroad for me.  Earlier this summer my family called me from a cookout to celebrate my sister’s birthday.  As the phone was passed around to each member of the family I grew more and more homesick.  Normally I don’t get this way – which is not to say I don’t miss my family.  It’s just I try to keep myself busy as possible and focused on my life here rather than dwell on what I’m missing.  This however becomes difficult when you run smack into a holiday which is centered around spending time with one’s family.  I knew this would be hard and thus requested the day off to travel and spend with other Americans, which is what I’ll do here in a bit.  I’ve already spoken with some of them and I know they’re having as hard of a time today as I am.

But, not only is today a day of family – it’s a day to take stock of ones life and realize what one has to be thankful for; and I do have quite a bit of good in my life.  Of course, the fact that my family, friends and I are all healthy is wonderful and oft overlooked.  But I’ve learned not to take this for granted.  Nor can it be discounted that this year finds most of them in good spirits and enjoying life.  I actually consider that quite a feat.

Personally, my life has changed radically over the past year – and almost entirely for the better.  I’m living the long held dream of residing abroad (specifically in Europe).  Not only that, but I’m doing it in a wonderful place full of opportunities.  I’ve met and become friends with so many people who challenge me in ways they cannot even begin to comprehend.  One of those is with a woman I’ve begun to date.  I’m doing a job that, whilst I probably do not want to do it forever, makes me happy.  And I see the difference I make on a daily basis.

My life in Haskovo is fulfilling with dance lessons that I’ve always wanted to take, a wonderful choir, and friends/acquaintances everywhere.  This past evening I attended a play in the gorgeous theater and afterwards headed up to KDK to hear a friend’s band play (before they head to Korea later this month).  I was shocked to hear how wonderful they were and spent the evening singing along with music I love.  One other friend, Tomas, happens to be a sushi chef and had made some for the band.  He made sure I had some as well, thus my first meal on Thanksgiving was Sushi.  Those who know me will find this surprising, but I really enjoyed it.  It’s not exactly ever been my cup of tea and it certainly isn’t most Bulgarians either.  The only ones who had any were those who’ve traveled abroad before. 

As I sat listening to great music last night, eating something new and sitting amongst friends I didn’t mind that I was the only American there or that I wasn’t going to have the traditional turkey and such this year (although I would KILL for some).  God has blessed me this past year, I’m very well aware of this.  And today, even though far away from the states and many who I love, I thank Him.

Posted by: mjmarble at November 24, 2005 13:17 | link | comments

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